After losing my dad, I learned that grief doesn’t move in a straight line.
There have been days of denial. Days of anger. Days when acceptance feels possible—and days when it doesn’t feel possible at all.
I’ve learned that accepting someone’s death doesn’t mean being okay with it. It doesn’t mean you stop missing them. And it certainly doesn’t mean you stop loving them.
I’m still navigating grief every day.
I’ve leaned on GriefShare, therapy, devotionals, my church, my faith, my family, and prayer. And sometimes, I simply talk to my dad.
Because when someone has been part of your life for so long, the relationship doesn’t suddenly become meaningless because they’re no longer physically here.
Somewhere along the way, I realized something.
The world keeps moving.
People stop asking how you’re doing. The flowers disappear. The calls become less frequent. Everyone returns to their normal lives.
But for the person grieving, there is no returning to the life that existed before.
There are birthdays.
Anniversaries.
Holidays.
Songs you weren’t prepared to hear.
Pictures you weren’t prepared to find.
Ordinary Tuesday afternoons when you would give anything to hear their voice again.
And sometimes, you simply need someone to remember with you.
That’s why I created The Quiet Remembering.
Not because I have grief figured out.
I don’t.
I created it because I’m walking through it too.
I wanted to create the kind of gentle support I have needed myself—words of faith when you don’t know what to pray, reminders that someone remembers the important days, devotionals for the quiet moments, and keepsakes that give you somewhere to put all the love that is still here.
This isn’t about “moving on.”
It’s about learning how to carry love forward.
The Quiet Remembering exists so that even when the rest of the world gets quiet, you don’t have to grieve alone.
We remember with you.
IN LOVING MEMORY
Kirk Ridenhour
December 10, 1957 – August 21, 2024
The love behind The Quiet Remembering.
Forever loved. Forever remembered. 🤍